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Meet Martin Roach, a remarkable individual whose journey is a testament to resilience and the power of love and support. Born with Cerebral Palsy in Reading, England, Martin fondly recalls a childhood filled with joy despite the challenges posed by his condition. Though some children teased him wearing a metal brace on his leg, Martin’s spirit remained unbroken.
In 2002, Martin’s life took another unexpected turn when he was diagnosed with late-stage HIV, a diagnosis that came with a CD4 count of just 200 and a viral load of one million. This revelation also marked the moment Martin came out as gay. The news was met with unwavering support from his parents, especially on the day his mother, concerned about his sudden weight loss, asked if he had AIDS. Their love and support have been a cornerstone of his strength.
Throughout his life, Martin has faced a double stigma: first for his disability and second for living with HIV. Despite these challenges, he has risen above discrimination and prejudice, becoming an inspiring advocate for others in similar situations.
Martin found profound love with Rokeby, a talented visual artist who has since passed away. Although Rokeby’s death was a significant blow, Martin continues to feel his partner’s presence, a testament to the deep bond they shared.
Today, Martin Roach is an HIV Ambassador for the Terrence Higgins Trust in the UK. In this role, he is at the forefront of a pivotal three-year project to eradicate societal stigma and achieve zero HIV stigma in London by 2030. This initiative is crucial, given that nearly half of people living with HIV in the UK experience shame about their status. Through his work, Martin advocates for free HIV testing in Reading and other towns, striving to enhance the quality of life for those living with HIV.
Martin’s story is one of survival and thriving against the odds. His dedication to his community and relentless fight against stigma make him a beacon of hope and a true ambassador for change.
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